Big Meeting This Afternoon to discuss EA

[RBinBR]

My hopes are not set to high that we will work out because she is in fantasy land right now and I think the divorce process will be over with before she gets off of the roller coaster ride.

Well, for one thing, most A's last less than 6 months. Your W may be in fantasyland, but she's about to experience reality, and that will likely have an effect.

For another, you're only looking at one half of the equation. The OG could very well decide to end it at any point.

Your W does not sound like she hates you, so I think you will have a good chance to reconcile when the A ends. You are correct that you can only work on yourself, though. Best of luck to you and keep us posted.