The meeting went as I expected. My W said that she is crazy about this OG and that she thinks she is in love with him and has actually seen him 3 times over the course of the last 3 months. I amazingly was very calm and kept my dignity. I owe a lot to Lori one of the DB consultants. If you have ever thought about using one of them I would highly recommend calling. I have decided all I can do is take care of myself and if it is meant to be it will be. My W said she is going to start looking for an apartment in the near future. She said she could not live at home because there would be too much guilt for what she has done to me. I am eager to see how quickly she files the divorce papers. My hopes are not set to high that we will work out because she is in fantasy land right now and I think the divorce process will be over with before she gets off of the roller coaster ride. I am hoping that she wakes up pretty soon but do not believe she will. Her family is as devastated as I am. I would appreciate it if all of you could keep me in your thoughts and/or prayers. I appreciate all of your help and will be checking in from time to time to see how all of you are doing and to update you on my situation.
