Oh, and that's a big one that John brought up, DO NOT REACT to things about the OM. Listen and move on. Do not ask questions and I would go so far as trying to move the conversation on to other subjects, or allow it to go there. The more you rant and rave about how unfair, dishonest, against morals, hurtful, etc, this OM thing is for you, the worse it gets. I think after spending close to 5 months here, I can say that is just about as close to a universal truth as you will find in all this...and by the way, NOT reacting to the OM is the hardest thing to do...of course.
