I'm so glad you had this reaction to the book. When I read it, I felt an enormous sense of relief, and release of pressure. Cleary in my sitch we aren't headed in the direction of lots of intense fcuking-- given the physical problems. But the deep EC described as the goal of this type of LM can last forever in the face of emotional upset, physical problems, aging... it can be a satisfying way of life.
Everyone here focused on the sex without O part, and freaked out unfortunately.
I think it was darlingnicky who said somewhere that what we REALLY want is a deep, erotic emotional connection with our partner. That is what this book is about. Thank you so much for validating that. Your opinion has a lot of credibility on this board.
