IHJ, Can you can discuss your fantasies with H in a safe time and place, making sure he understands that you are not asking him to fulfill any of them? My thought is that if you let him into your mind that he might get curious or might on a whim decide to play one of them out. I know, it is kind of scary and hard to talk about this, it leaves you very vulnerable and there's also the fear of scaring him off. That's why I was suggesting trying to do it in a safe way (no not a Safeway supermarket silly , although that might be fun ). Nope, I haven't been able to muster the courage to talk in depth about my fantasies with Mrs GGB either: she insists she has none, so it makes it even harder to open up that box. She did buy a shortish dress and promised to wear it with no panties when she loses enough weight to fit into it though, so I guess she did hear me a little (not that I expect it to ever actually happen though).
, although that might be fun 
). Nope, I haven't been able to muster the courage to talk in depth about my fantasies with Mrs GGB either: she insists she has none, so it makes it even harder to open up that box. She did buy a shortish dress and promised to wear it with no panties when she loses enough weight to fit into it though, so I guess she did hear me a little (not that I expect it to ever actually happen though). 