Hi IHJ I like your plan. It sounds like you are going to try to not suppress your sex drive anymore, just express yourself in a different way. And hope H jumps on the bandwagon sooner or later. I find it interesting that you say your H needs some drama or spark to become passionnate (like a fight), but will not respond to overt sexuality from you. Why do you think that is? Has it always been that way? Sometimes we just condition ourselves to respond a certain way out of bad habits. Does he not like the aggressive IHJ? Does he ever become aggressive (sexually) himself?
