Quote: Jenny and the other Higher drive women. It is difficult being in a R where basic sex is in short supply, so asking for or suggesting something that some W consider gross, is not even more than a brief thought if one wants to keep the peace.
Believe me I understand . I was just wondering if this was sort of an iconic non-fulfillable fantasy for HD the way the "breast-stimulation-orgasm" fantasy is for me. Anal is the #2 specific activity that men ask for from prostitutes but I'm sure it's not close to being the #2 thing that men want sexually in general. Many men go to prostitutes just for variety not because they're actually starved for sex at home.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
RE: Mojo I was just wondering if this was sort of an iconic non-fulfillable fantasy for HD the way the "breast-stimulation-orgasm" fantasy is for me.
Could be just a dream/wish.
The breast stimulation / orgasm fantasy would be more difficult and depend on the woman's wiring, along with a man's skills.
I say that thinking about Ms. Haidog's comments about HD not touching her breasts.
The man doing anal on a woman is just a matter of doing it with someone willing to do it.
But that shows my short sightedness, lack of dreaming. If the basics are not there, it is difficult to dream/wish for the more advanced forms.
Many men go to prostitutes just for variety not because they're actually starved for sex at home
I suppose they do Jenny. I don't have male friends like that.
Look at all of the guys here that are sex starved that don't or barely consider having sex with anyone other than their spouse/SO.
Quote: Not an iconic non-fulfillable fantasy. Not a wish. Just this: a punchline.
Yeah, I should have guessed. It goes along with the fart humor .
Quote: Also, regarding Mojo's breast-only orgasm, does this have to be a "hands only" thing, or can other body parts be used? What about mechanical devices?
Definitely not "hands only". Though tongue only might be good. Mechanical devices would be okay though I am sometimes turned off by plastic just because I don't like the aesthetic. Definitely don't like nipple clamps or anything else on the medieval end of things.
I must say that I am feeling remarkably free to express myself sexually now that I've posted my fat pictures. Nobody can accuse me of being sexually provocative now that I've done that
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
"I must say that I am feeling remarkably free to express myself sexually now that I've posted my fat pictures."
LOL, what an amazingly mature way of thinking about it.
And just because you aren't as skinny as those silly supermodels doesn't mean you are fat. Fat to me is when it gets to be unhealthy. And then it isn't a question of attractiveness, only of ability. When you aren't in shape there are a lot of things that can't be done or are so tiring it doesn't matter. In that respect though, there are many skinny women that are more out of shape than the so-called fat ones. In fact, I would define fat (or better worded, overweight) as being if it inhibits you from doing things that you would like to do.
Chromo
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
Quote: In fact, I would define fat (or better worded, overweight) as being if it inhibits you from doing things that you would like to do.
Well, that sort of was (please note the past tense) the question for me. Was I too fat to do what I liked to do which was- get laid on a regular basis?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
"I must say that I am feeling remarkably free to express myself sexually now that I've posted my fat pictures."
That is to funny most people would become more inhibited after a picture took them from cyber blind to maybe we will bump heads at the deli.
Okay I must have missed out on this fantasy Care to recap?
The nipple rings that is to funny to today at work with way to much time to think I was wondering why anyone would do the nipple rings attached to the cockrings. Why this popped in my mind ahhh no clue but to funny to come home and see reference to them on the board lol
Chrissy who is never inhibited on the SSM boards lol.
You know, I have let the fact that I am "overweight" effect how I feel about myself for so long. It really effected my self-esteem as a kid and young adult. However, the older I get, the more comfortable I am in my own skin. I know there are many men out there who find a few curves attractive...this reminds me of a song:
Hot Mama by Atkins Trace
You're doin' all you can to get in them old jeans. You want that body back, you had at seventeen. Baby, don't get down; don't worry 'bout a thing. 'Cause the way you fill 'em out, hey, that's all right with me. I don't want the girl you used to be. An' if you ain't noticed, the kids are fast asleep,
An' you're one hot mama; You turn me on, let's turn it up, An' turn this room into a sauna. One hot mama, Oh, whaddya say, baby? You wanna?
Well, I know sometimes you think that all you really are, Is the woman with the kids an' the groceries in the car. An' you worry about your hips an' you worry about your age. Meanwhile I'm tryin' to catch the breath you take away. Oh, an' believe me, you still do. Baby, all I see, when I look at you,
Is one hot mama; You turn me on, let's turn it up, An' turn this room into a sauna. One hot mama, Oh, whaddya say, baby? You wanna?
I can't imagine me lovin' someone else. I'm a lucky man, I think Daddy's got himself,
One hot mama; You turn me on, let's turn it up, An' turn this room into a sauna. One hot mama, Oh, whaddya say, babe? Oh, now whaddya say, babe? You wanna?
Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
Quote: "I must say that I am feeling remarkably free to express myself sexually now that I've posted my fat pictures."
That is to funny most people would become more inhibited after a picture took them from cyber blind to maybe we will bump heads at the deli.
The fact of the matter is that I am quite comfortable with my body in real life. Much more comfortable than I was with it when I was younger and thinner in fact. For instance, I am always amazed when HDM post about their W's only wanting to do it in the dark. I literally can't remember the last time I had sex with the lights out. We have a big wall mirror in our bedroom and this is actually one of the few sexual suggestions that I've made that my H enthusiastically endorsed. You only get one run at this life on earth and you've only got the one body you were born with to live in. Maybe the Goddess wasn't being kind when she gave me the tendency towards gaining weight gene but she also gave me the easy attainment of multiple orgasm gene, so why should I b*tch .
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
. I was just wondering if this was sort of an iconic non-fulfillable fantasy for HD the way the "breast-stimulation-orgasm" fantasy is for me. Anal is the #2 specific activity that men ask for from prostitutes but I'm sure it's not close to being the #2 thing that men want sexually in general. Many men go to prostitutes just for variety not because they're actually starved for sex at home. 
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