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Perhaps, in order to save the M, you might want to consider farming out the need for comfort to a friend, family member, or professional (therapist).






Well, I kinda like the idea of fixing this marriage so that I have a true "soulmate" who truly understands me, but that's just another fusion fantasy.

You would think after 20+ yrs of knowing my H I could finally accept our emotional gap, but acceptance comes hard to me...means there is no more to fix, this is the way it is...and, well, accept.

I am still feeling LD but will do my best to " shake it off."