I'm sorry if I seemed too harsh in my last post. I keep identifying you too much with my Type 4 LD real life friend. She is currently in ,IMO, a self-destructive mode concerning her marriage. For instance, she is not meeting her H's sexual needs but she is encouraging him to attend a weekly co-ed poker game party on Saturday nights during which the participants tend to get quite wasted. I think I associate her H with your H and therefore tend to think of him as being a really nice, caring guy who she/you would regret losing in the long run.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
