But what is happening here Cobra is the money issue is becoming entangled with the affection/intimacy issue. If one member has financial problems, then you solve that problem with separate accounts, allowances, etc. But the intimacy/affection issue should be worked on without resorting to tactics that can create problems in other areas of the marriage. IMHO
Chromo
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
