No, I think you're misunderstanding me. I don't have a problem being the primary bread winner, but we are living as though we are emotionally separated, therefore it is *me* who does *not* want to pool our money. He hasn't asked to pool our money, only for me to take on more than half of the financial obligations because I make more.
Chrome is probably 100% right, my position smacks of lack of commitment to the M. Please give me a smackdown here if warranted, but that is the whole point. H is willing to give no emotional commitment yet still wants me to commit to supporting him in ways that I would not if we were separated. Am I making sense? It's like he's offering not commitment, but wanting commitment from me.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
