Phase3: I guess I'm not as worried about "one minute" longer as I am about "months and months" longer, but basically yes, you have your finger on my pulse.
Lillieperl: ... are you thinking that Heather has done enough and has suffered enough and NOTHING is going to get through her H's thick, self-pitying skull and she should just bail? (I'm inclined to think that myself, but she doesn't seem to be quite ready.)
Heather,
I've written this before on your thread. Last time I wrote that your postings seemed to go in cycles, now I'm getting the feeling that the posting of others are going in cycles. I remember reading something similar from NY Survivor when you were posting in the Infidelity forum.
Are you still seeing a positive change in H's behavior and attitude towards your sitch?
What is it that you have done to facilitate this?
Have you seen any negative changes in H?
What have you done to facilitate this?
Just thought you might need to focus on the basics again for a minute. Sorry I don't have anything else profound to add.
