Am I Creating a SSM Part II

[Burgbud]

{OG_Lou] Guess I will have to read that thread. Any links?

You'll probably have to do a search for "NYSurvivor" in the Infidelity forum. He had several threads and while he mentioned this about his OM more than once, it would be a lot to sift thru.


[Cobra] From your comments I am not sure you understand this either.

Cobra, you're a good and well-intentioned person but I often think you're a bit addicted to control as well. You seem to view people a lot more algorithmically than I do (though I'm an engineer and that kind of thinking comes very easily). You tend to assign human behavior to a fairly limited number of variables that are much more easily modified than my experience indicates the case to be. I often remind myself when reading your posts that an authoritative tone doesn't make you right.

But if you have help for Heather then more power to you.

As for being a "married single", Heather's H falls pretty squarely in that category from all I've read. Heather is far from it.