Re Phase3 It's clear to me that H is what I've seen described as a "married single
Interesting post and concept "married single" other wise known as being selfish.
One way of dealing with a married single is to be a married single yourself. Sounds like a basic coping strategy with limited effort but limited rewards.
I always think of NYS's OM when I think about this because he seemed so good at it. He didn't seem to mind if K went and hung out with NYS for an afternoon. Guess I will have to read that thread. Any links?
No time for more now. Thanks for posting the "married single" concept. It explained some things I have observed or done.
