Two Years After The BreakUp

[BeingMe]

Wonderful to hear this news, NYS! I remember your postings from 2004 when my sitch and rollercoaster ride began. It helped me a lot. I am glad you were able to have such a positive discussion about your R, and that there has been some clarity for you and your WAW. My sitch lasted about a year, when my H decided he wanted to work on our M - we still have some stuff to overcome - i.e. my trust in him is pretty much NIL, but I have learned not to have any expectations.

You do sound like you are in a strong place, emotionally. Whether we win our WAS's back or not, that should be our goal, ultimately. To be emotionally strong, confident within ourselves, positive about life in general, and to love unconditionally while having our boundaries.

Thanks for letting us know how things are going.