Quote: It seems like everything - whether it's a neighbourhood, a restaurant, a song, his car (he drove her to work everyday) all remind me of what I went through. Will this pass?
Of course this will pass. Your still on the rollercoaster ride. Your going to have good days and bad days. Everything will scare you at first. Like your first fight. But I'm here to tell you that it all gets easier. My attitude has shifted with my H. Its been almost 10 months since hes back, and I'm not worried about him cheating anymore. I keep telling myself that he had once chance and if he blows it again, it sucks to be him. He'll lose everything he has in his life, and if thats what he wants then thats what he can have. I guess what I'm saying is that I got tired of walking on egg shells.
Quote: but I worry that these constant negative feelings are going sabotage what is still a fragile M
Time will heal kiddo....
You must remember that the waves that knocked the boat over on its side didn't just happen. Its took awhile for it all to go down, and its going to take awhile to rebuild. Your going to feel really high and happy and giddy like a teenager, then your going to crash and wonder why this crap happened to you and not someone else. Your going to question why you decided to save your M, then your going to give advice to someone else about saving their M, and how it was all worth it.
Your not alone.... Dbing is a lifetime activity.
Well done for coming as far as you did!!!!!
PLW
I saved my marriage and so can you....Its all about positive thinking...
