ok....not much going on here...SO is still sick, actually didn't work at his bar remote last night...nor go to work this AM. He called a few times yesterday - seemed like every time he woke up, he called here.
Today I knew he wasn't on air...not something that I can help but realize when it's not his voice coming over the air waves. ...didn't hear from him all morning. I finally texted his phone (he had given his laptop yesterday to the guy who was working for him last night, so he didn't have email - info he offered to me yesterday during phone convo)...and I didn't want to call him if he was sick/sleeping...so I chose to text so that he could answer on his own schedule. He called about a half hour later - sounding like crap.
He said he couldn't even get out of bed this AM to try and get to work and had his boss cover. We talked a little and he said something about coming here later. I wasn't sure what his tone meant, so I said I would understand if he didn't want to come out; trying to give him the choice if he doesn't want to/feel up to it. I said "Don't take it the wrong way, it's not that I don't want you here or anything, however I'll understand with you being sick." He said "No, I want to come out." A little more discussion and he said he'd call later after he woke up again and would let me know when/if he was coming. I said OK.
Now, on another note. His birthday is tomorrow. I had been waivering about getting him something or not. I had decided not to - for 2 reasons. 1) I always get him something -no matter what. I had been thinking that by NOT getting him something, Oh - I don't know what I was thinking, to be honest. Probably out of retaliation for: 2) He hasn't gotten me anything the last few holidays - why should I get him anything
Wonder what anyone's thoughts are on this. What I was going to get him I have to order online, so it won't get here in time anyway. Do I or don't I? I don't know what to do. Then I thought maybe something silly & homemade....I don't know.....He won't even be here tomorrow......
Another wonder of mine....this weekend. His mom is taking the kids Saturday/Sunday...HE knows this. She's also having a BBQ at her house Sunday, to which we're invited...he knows this, too, as he also got the same email as I did (which, she purposely (???) put in the email the line: "NM, I don't know where you'll be since I'm kidnapping your girls for the weekend to give you a break"), so please RSVP etc, etc. My question...do I make an offers for this weekend? I'm so afraid to suggest anything with him right now. Since he knows I have no kids, knows his mom's BBQ plans - do I wait to see if he suggests anything? I doubt he will, though. Sad that I think that. I know he's got to work Monday early AM at a Parade. And, he's supposed to work Saturday night as well....
