LOL, this is why I love reading your posts! Actually, despite what you may think of yourself, I really do believe you have it together....sure at times, things seem crazy and you awash in a sea of confusion, but you always seem to come out on top and I think that's the most important aspect of this.
Quote: I guess I'm finally coming around. I'm tired of dwelling on what went wrong. I know what went wrong. However, I will not pay for my mistakes of the past for the rest of my life. SO will miss out on a lot of good things. That is his choice. His choice has led me down this road...one of self-improvement and facing the things that are not as I'd like them to be (about myself). I understand that this is not something that should ever end....rather - a lifelong commitment, to myself, as well as whatever R I'm in.
I absolutely love this statement of self-reflection. It is about a lifelong committment to self-improvement. I guess I'm starting to really coming around to understanding this myself. I want to be a better person and while my mistakes of the past in my R may have led to where I am today, I'm willing to give up the guilt of those mistakes and try to forge ahead for myself. If that future includes my W, then fantastic, hopefully she too will come to a better understanding of R and of herself. If not, then I suppose I'll be a better person beacause of it.
LMAO @ Funch!
Quote: And I CAN'T SOLVE HIS PROBLEMS
No, you can't. Again, this is something I'm coming to terms with myself.
I'm very happy to read a positive post from you again NM! Get out there and enjoy that elusive sunshine!
All the best,
Rob
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
