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In light of all this history, it is very important that you make it clear to him that there is a way back and what it requires. I'd suggest being very direct about this.




How? How do you get someone to take a leap of faith when history has suggested otherwise?

When my bad reactions, my lack of knowldege about what it takes to make R's work - how do I prove myself with all my bad history?

I believe I know the answer. I just need to hear it.

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I'm not sure if you ever said anything to him or not after your last post about him asking what he should do...




No, I haven't pushed him about it.