Quote: In light of all this history, it is very important that you make it clear to him that there is a way back and what it requires. I'd suggest being very direct about this.
How? How do you get someone to take a leap of faith when history has suggested otherwise?
When my bad reactions, my lack of knowldege about what it takes to make R's work - how do I prove myself with all my bad history?
I believe I know the answer. I just need to hear it.
Quote: I'm not sure if you ever said anything to him or not after your last post about him asking what he should do...