Just to clarify, since I think my previous post was confusing, "going dark" IS DB (as Michele herself makes clear on the thread I linked) if you use it for GAL and detachment, so GH and I are basically on the same page. It's time to focus on you for a while and just ignore your SO.

You've "gone dusk" before anyway, where you would ignore most of his messages and texts, so I don't think I was proposing anything extreme for you.

My point was that your anger right now, while completely justified, will not draw him back to you, so there's no point in talking to him, because it's not going to help.


The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)