If you are serious about your marriage, then you must NEVER see or communicate with OM ever again. You will have to find other employment at another company. This might give your husband something to trust. The OM must be COMPLELETEY removed from your life, or your husband will have no reason to ever trust you. Read the "10 stupid things women do". One of those "Stupid" things is being friends with ex lovers. You must have NO close friendships with any man other than your husband.
