Yes I have told OM that I'm not interested in pursuing anything with him but friendship(co-worker friendship)only and I think he's got the point but I see a little difficulty in him accepting it completely. I think he just needs time. I don't think anyone ever told him "no" before and since he didn't get anywhere(sex)with me, he must still feel challenged, but I'm feeling very strong and like I said he doesn't have a chance to be alone w/me. If that ever happens, I feel confident that I can turn him down. I have made a decision to work on my marriage and myself and God has blessed me with stubborness. I'm still going to look for another job though cause I know I'm human and if the circumstances are right I could fall. I get so discouraged still when my husband doesn't give me any attention(as a woman) and almost to the point where I could go into depression, but I've also been blessed with optimisim and I think that keeps me from the depression. I am going to take your advise and get counseling for myself though and see if that doesn't make a difference also. I am also reading a great book "The Sacred Romance", it has helped me so much. and I saw another "When love dies" that I want to get next. Well I'll leave it at that for now but thanks, like I said before, this site is my counseling right now. Hey, if you ever need anything, I'm here for you too.
