Brian, Thanks for your encouragement, I really need this right now. Yes I know the answers in my heart and Im looking into getting away from OM. that means changing jobs which I am working on(and the OM knows it) I hate calling him the OM because I am not in a relationship w/him except coworker/friend. I am guilty of what happened 7mos ago and flirting that has gone on until recently it is a sin that I have repented for to God and am trying to keep my distance from him but I do have feelings for him and do feel like I owe him my friendship but I know the only way to stop this is to get myself completely away from him. In a way I feel like he has helped my marriage but don't want to let that be a reason to let my guard down. Right now I feel strong, but every day that I feel rejection from my H, makes it that much easier to fall. I am going to discuss my feelings with my H and thanks for the advise of keeping the OM info out because I was debating whether or not to confess that. I think that would be a big mistake, he would never understand or trust me again. thanks again and hey, I love your quote.
