Thank you so much for responding.. I will do what you advised and speak to my husband. 6mos ago i was getting close to this OM and we actually kissed a few times but we both have discussed the fact that we can't pursue this.both married w/children. Morals, I know its so wrong but I get so hurt everyday that goes by that I don't know how long till I break. This man has made it clear to me that it would only be a physical thing(which would normally make me sick)under the circumstances though I haven't let that be a deterrant. Nothing has happened since Sept. and I don't plan on it but sometimes I do think about it. I tell you this so you can help me. and I haven't told this om about my sexstarved marriage but I'm sure he must think something. I will try to talk to my husband though and I'll let you know what happens. in the meantime if there's anything you can advise I really appreciate it. Thanks so much.
