setting boundaries with a 23 yr old girl is difficult since i am trying to help her go to school but even the 3rd flr guy was talking about how nasty daughter's attitude is when she's here & she was rude to him for no reason
tonite she & i exchanged keys - she no longer can just walk into my house since in her anger she decided to ask for her house keys back due to me telling her there's no reason for her house to be such a pig stye when g-son lives with me & it's suppose to be just her in the house at nites - uuuhhh nope the almost empty bottle of captain morgan says she's having much fun while i've been stuck with g-son
well from tonite forward she'll have to drop him off before she goes to work or school & come pick him up after she gets out of work or school - just like she would for any other babysitter - she can get up at 6am & get him dressed & over here before the bus gets here at 645 since she doesn't appreciate the fact that i've been doing that every morning since this whole babysitting thing started for her to go to school -
it's summertime i'm not going to be stuck watching her child while she gets to party - she is not my husband that i have to walk on eggshels so that i don't disturb his poor ego while he's wallowing in self pity & mlc - no longer am i wasting time or energy with her bs - new tactic has been to simply state my position & to turn my back while i tend to my emails or i simply say what i'm going to say & then go back to watching tv ignoring her & what she wants to fuss about - hard to bite my tongue with her but it is slowly working & she knows that she really crossed the line tonite when she decided to up the ante about the keys - it shocked her that i asked for mine since i've not ever done so in the past, but she's the one who's got to start thinking about exactly what it is that she's going to be doing from here on out
now for the crazy mlcer - no site of byron since he came over with an attitude to do the laundry saturday nite i guess it was his guilt that made him fuss at me when i answered his question & he was in a rush to get to the sports bar to watch the fights with the moochers so he just dumpped everything into the living room - typical mlc crap for him fun firstresponsilbility to be avoided at all costs possible
well i'm off to bed it's now 1230am & this headache isn't subsiding time to say prayers so that I can give these 2 to God to work on their convictions of hearts
i sent over a reminder email about his mismatch socks & the ones with holes in them since i've got a pillow to stuff & i use the socks to help fill the pillows & save on the cost of stuffing & keep the socks out of the landfills (the only way i recylce is to reuse something in a new way otherwise it goes into the trash)
