Thank you so much for your post. I hope all is going well for you. I have been thinking of the legal separation option as well. If you could tell me anything about it, I would appreciate it. My H said he would do the paternity test but is now dragging his feet saying it costs too much. He's been off work with the family leave act now for almost 6 wks. and is due to go back to work after Fathers Day. We still haven't told the kids but I would feel so much better if I felt positive. I've seen pictures of the child and still would like to be more positive. It is nice to know there is someone out there like you although I am truely sorry you are going through this. I have to ask does your H realize he has made a huge mistake but he feels this is the only right thing to do as the child can't take care of itself? I am working at keeping my head up, praying to God daily and knowing that there is a right path.
