WOW Hope,

Look who you got to come out from under a rock!!!!......and with some very good advice I might add.

Bruce is so right. We will never understand no matter how hard we try. I was told that when something like this happens to us to rock our world, it is comparable to Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. Possibly one of the reasons that it takes so darn for us to get our selves back together. Thing is that's all we really can do. Put one foot in front of the other until oneday we won't have to think about it anymore. Maybe then we will really know in our heart that they are the losers in this deal!

Take care Sweetie...............

Love,
Bethie