I am so sorry about your situation but I am still a little unclear. He hasn't filed any papers yet? Can you both go to a good councellor together? It sounds like he feels very responsible for his actions towards the OW and baby and conflicted as to what he should do. He needs direction but not from you. Do you have a Pastor or someone you can talk to? The baby will be here in a few weeks and so yes it is time for action.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
