well, Still been reading the Divorce Busters book. I find a lot of it helpful and has been to my benefit.
Ex and I have been speaking regularly via the net. We have agreed to speak a few times a week and see where things can go from here. There is still a lot of hurt from both sides but it is getting easier.
I have stood up and taken responsibility on my end and he has too in a more laid back way. There are still some issues that I am sure we will need to talk through.
So we have begun seriously talking about setting a date to meet eachother and spend the weekend together. I am extremely nervous and anxious about it even though I am excited as the world.
I have tried to tell myself that the outcome doesnt matter but I know that would be kidding myself. It does matter. I have told him this and he understands but maintains that we will have this "relationship" as long as it is positive for us both. He said he loves me and respects me and will take it how it comes.
We have yet to speak on the phone becuase he lives with family. That really seems to get under my skin, but since I have not had the guts to ask why I am going to hold my opinion for now. It is still new and fragile.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to handle the meeting, the phone etc? I am really working to make it the best we both can. Thanks for anyhelp or advice.
