Well good news, I was able to get divorce busting and read most all of it last night. A lot of it made sense and some of it had me wondering, being 2 states away how this works. And then the obvious dawned-- it's me.

So anyhow, got online to send a "do something different" email which just said that it was nice hearing from him, see him if he's on. Almost immediatly I got a reply, he was online and chatting. HA!

So we talked with less anger than we have in a year, ironic since our year of divorce is coming in a month or so. It is fagile and I am fully aware of that but am so releived that he wants to talk. Not about getting together but about us.

I am sooo excited! I still cant beleive it.