Thank you whatis, and I do wonder to what extent that had something to do with it. At this point, I have no expectations for our R, and told her that I will do everything I can to help her through this process...there will be plenty of time to deal with the R issues once she can begin to process her emotions and feelings in a healthy, positive way. I really am so very proud of her at this moment though, despite everything. This is a huge leap of courage on her part.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
