OT, thanks for popping out of the nursery to provide your wisdom with regard to my sitch. Your advice and wisdom has always been a great source for me.

Understood with the reappearing act...I went through this several times at the begining of the year when she would tell me its over then only come to find out that it really wasn't, so I was skeptical the last time she said that it was over. I think what really blindsided me is that I sort of believed that she had moved on, based upon some actions and words, but I wasn't convinced and given what I know now, she wasn't convincing me well, because it wasn't.

Yeah, I do believe on some level that the continued contact was a large part of her not wanting to be a b*tch, but again, as usual, I agree with you that it did provide that avenue of acting out. I see all this pretty clearly now.

As for taking a stand, that will be no problem from my viewpoint, in the event that I intend to want to take that stand. Right now, I'm angry at the new web of lies, and I'm a little fed up with the whole sitch in general. So that's where I am right now as of 5pm EST today. We'll see were I am tomorrow, lol

I am also encouraged by her seeking support for her problem, but I believe, and I think she's just starting to realize, that the true hard work is ahead of her. It is extremely sad to watch her suffer through this, but I am hopeful that this T will get her on the right track.

Thanks for checking in with me OT, I truly apprecaite it. How's the bambino?

Rob

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu