Rob, I am so proud of you for following through on the C thing. I think you may be having trouble understanding it's value, or deciding IF it has value right now because you have some VERY weighty issues you want to address, and likely they need to be addressed on their own. Your W's ED is probably at the forefront but your marital problems are a backdrop to that and need to be addressed too. I say keep going (as I think you are) and give this process time. Keep a clear idea of your goals and work with C to reach them.
For me, just the ability to talk to someone who listened without judgment and without feeling like they will gossip to someone. There is really nobody else in my life, er, my REAL life that fits that bill.
Rob, I think this is a VERY important step for you and I know how hard it was. Keep it going!
