GRRRRR is right. No wonder I hate those darn shows. If there is something I know about my W is that if she COULD control it she would. I just cannot comprehend how this has affected her and how she must feel.

For whatever it is worth, at the least my W is not in denial with me....she really has been pretty forthcoming about some things with me that I had not expected her to be. I am truly happy that she has that level of trust with me that she is able to confide some of her darkest secrets.

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu