Yes, thank you so very much for your insight. I just finished reading The Secret Language of Eating Disorders and I have been checking out the Something Fishy website. Both very informative. I'm still researching, but in the short time that I have, I have learned so much about what she may be feeling and the "why" she may be doing it. I also found the support board there for spouses.
The misconception I had all along is that this was something she "chose" to do to cope with her negative emotions. In fact, its not really a choice at all. It certainly is going to take a lot of love, patience and understanding to work through all of this....
Thanks again for your advice. Hope this day find you doing well!
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