Geez, I had to go the the THIRD page to find my thread! What gives? Either that means that nothing exciting is happening in my life, or there are so many new people on this site....
Well, I finally broke down and finally called for a referral to seek IC. This was a huge step for me, but completely necessary as things just seem to keep swirling out of control. I just have no idea what the heck I'm doing, or what I'm supposed to be doing, etc. In any event, try finding a counselor who not only specializes in relationship counseling, but also in eating disorders as well.
As some of you may already know of my sitch, I guess I'm in a sort of unique situation in that not only I am dealing with my wife having an EA (although its not blatantly an A anymore, but those feelings and emotions are still there and they still see each other at work), but my W is undoubtedly suffering from an ED at this point. Something I had suspected, but more or less confirmed in several discussions we had in the past week. While DBing efforts undoubtely work very well in attemptint to rekindle a relationship, I'm having a hard time reconciling my DBing efforts with my W's underlying issues. So, this is definitely a journey.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
