Journaling: the continuation of my saga

[PArob]

My W says she knows she needs to work on herself and needs the time and space to do that. The hardest thing for me to do is to sit back and watch her work on things that I don't think need work at all (while ignoring things that DO matter IMHO),

Well, my W has acknowledged that she has issues to deal with....that is very important. Maybe, like you, I'm focusing on the ones that I think matter and not those that are important to her....

Sure, if you KNOW her health is at risk, you can, and probably should do something but other than that, we can only voice our concern and hope it matters to them.

That's part of the other issue, I don't KNOW that her healt is truly at risk...obviously she's not getting a proper diet only eating dry cereal and pretzel sticks, but she has maintained her weight below 100. I don't see any other physical manifestations (classic signs of malnutrition) but to look at her is nearly shocking...

So I guess I just answered my own question, as long as she seems physically okay, I shouldn't be overly concerned. I expressed my opinion and that should be the end of it from my end.