Rob, I too can relate to where you are. I have been doing all that I can to improve my M/R. I feel that my H has issues that need to be addressed with a professional. He has stated a few times that he would go, but has made no attempt and I can guarantee he was only saying what I wanted to hear. I feel like I can only do so much, my H needs to deal with his deep seated issues and until he does our R will remain stagnant.
Anyway, sorry that I couldn't offer any advice. Just wanted you to know that you are not alone.
