I went to an Imago therapist as well after going to a regular one. What a difference! She was the best! My H and I were separated 3 months and now back together 9 mos. He still will not say ILU until I say it first. He is reluctant. It is like he doesn't want to get close sometimes in case it doesn't work out I think. Just guessing. Once such a thing as this happens I think people are naturally cautious. If this had not or doesn't work out I have no interest in another relationship. Unless it fell into my lap, I would not look for one. I know that sounds sad, but this was very painful for me. I'm sure you understand.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
