Oh Sage...she is just simply...perfect...perfect and beautiful, just as I suspect her mother is, knowing what I know of her mother's soul.
Don't fret, dear sweet Sage...you are most definitely still an active part of this community. Yes, you still "get it". You have grown immensely with your M and H. And no, if he chooses to fall off the fidelity wagon, that's his problem and not yours, and you will not be a fool. Trust me, I've run that scenario through my head about a jillion times. I know who I am, more now than ever. SO knows he almost lost what we have. If it goes south, it will be his doing, and not mine.
I think one of the great gifts of DR is that we learn the high road, and we learn it in a big, bad hard way. Things our mums never taught us, eh?
