Looking backward but only to look forward SIX

[sage]

Hi all,
Thanks so much for the responses! I'm feeling a bit more like my normal self...Charlotte is sleeping somewhat better (at least she's up to 3 hours between feedings now for the most part over night) and she seems more predictable...I have a reasonable sense of what works and what doesn't so I don't feel so lost! Of course, that's all going to get turned around when she starts daycare in a few weeks.

As for h, let me assure you guys that I am lavish (but appropriate!) with the WOA and praise. The guys gets ample support from me, to be sure. What I'm still failing on his QT and PI...and those are equally important to my martian...I need to get my act together.

As for mom's day...Ellie, thank you so much for the suggestion! We didn't do our redo last weekend as h graduated from law school and I threw a big surprise bash...but sunday is mom's day redux. I gave him some guidelines and will reinforce those as the day gets closer. I think it was a relief to him! He even wrote it in his datebook!

Thanks again, all, it really helped.

Sage