The first step in making any wish come true is giving it a voice. Sounds pretty easy, if only it was. Many times I have to remind myself that H is busy and works hard too, and if we switched places for even just a day we would appreciate what we each do a lot more. You know, walk a mile in another persons shoes.
Sage, put a voice to your wishes, take a few hours in between feedings for just you, or some time together with H.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.