Aw Sage - I suggest when you can, go get yourself something to mark your first mothers day. I have to say though, that NG shares many of the forgetfulness that your H and Ellies H seem to be plagued with.
But I realize now I really let H off the hook way too often, so that now I am disappointed and he can't figure out what my problem is, because I was always okay with it before when he didn't really step up to the plate. (And yes, I will admit, I definitely feel after the affair that he OWES it to me to make a big deal of things like Mother's Day etc. )
Ahem, this describes us to a tee too. I used to be understanding, and now I feel that maybe it contributed to the situation. Certainly I intend to be more explicit about what I expect - great advice Ellie.
