Quote: One thing I also forget in the heat of the moment is how frustrated h can get when he doesn't think he can solve a problem easily...it masks itself as anger, irritation, an unwillingness to even try...
I've noticed this with DH. Everytime he gets an odd message on the PC or it acts up at all, he would get really worked up and keep demanding to know what's wrong with it. While I'm working on it--which usually meant that I didn't have an answer yet. Every couple of seconds... "What is that?" "What does that mean?" "What are you doing?" Ack!
I finally asked him the other day why he gets so mad at the PC when it doesn't work. I was surprised when he told me he wasn't mad--just panicked. He could have fooled me, since he sure sounded mad.