Maybe your W doesn't know what she wants. A year ago that was the way I was. I was so unhappy. And of course it was all my H's fault. It wasn't. The thing was, I didn't know what I wanted. How do you answer a question when you don't know the answer. I know I put my H through hell. One minute I wanted to be single. The next I would get so sad and wanted to make our R work any way possible. I knew I still loved my H though I didn't act like it. Sometimes I felt like my head would explode with all the contradictory thoughts racing through my head!
I chose escape for a short time on the internet and it all came to a big head and made me realize what I really did want... I wanted my H. I wanted the man that I have loved for 28 years. And I will be as patient as long as it takes to get back what we once had...
keep your chin up... barrel through those lonely times... smile and keep on going... circumstances are only temporary... character is forever...
