Well these gyrations are nothing new lately. You should see when se renacts the scenes from "Scanners" when they hole their heads like they are going to explode!
Not dismissing her feelings but it is a sight!
I felt good hovering! Honestly, I felt the twinge in my leg to start kicking those pieces. But knwoing what I might face and dealing with it prior, helped a lot.
In fact the second phone call had a different candor to it. Not sweet, but not condensending either.
I do attribute some of this to her job, not making excuses for her behavior because it is her behavior. But although she like to portray she can handle anything, in her job the stress will drive her into super-b*tch mode. Been living with that fo 10 years each year at this time. If things were better (of course I woould not have been here learning) I might call her on that and say:
"W I did not cause the stress of your job and I do not deserve to get the brunt of your frustration with it. If you want to take it out on me please let me know in advance so I do not read it as something I have done".
But right now, vent away W, if that turns your crank go for it.
Ooops better go pick up S7's playmate before the National Guard shows up at my door!
F4W (who needs to get a louder alarm on his PALM device thingy!)
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!