Quote: The credible-threat theory is part of what won the Nobel Prize for Thomas Schelling of the University of Maryland. According to Schelling, for a threat to work, you must have absolutely no doubt that it will happen.
Key phrase you must absolutely no doubt it will happen. In the past, speaking from my frame of mind, there has been doubt in her rants about D. NOW, there is a new feeling, this is a credible threat, thus my actions. Softly call that bluff by offering her the out and stating that I will not continue to remain in a non-loving, caring, affectionless, and sex as reward or duty marriage, and in doing so I am forced to make changes that need to keep me in "the game".
Hopefully Mrs. F4W can see a positive outcome can be salvaged.
F4W, who is now going to the store to buy whistles, air horns, and materials for signs so Mrs F4W can find him in their own house!
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
