Motivated by Happy Giant's Post

[Fighting4Wife]

Thanks Honeypot.

To expand a bit. Not trying to glorify myself at all. Most time I need a length of time to climax. Not always but a better portion of the time. Last time we ML it was that way. All she had was disgust in her face and body reactions after the first 5 minutes, that I could not complete the action sooner. I did tell her to stop. That it was not helpful, and in all my days I have never had someone complain about the length of the session being too long! She replied she was becoming dry and it was painful. So I stopped and was left unfulfilled. We then went down the road of me feeling inadquate through her actions because I did not finsh soon enough. After I asked if she would be open to a personal lubricant to help in that issue the next time this happens. That drew her ire. That I was saying something was wrong. I said well it seems like it is not you but your body. Well that was received well, NOT

The next time she did not make those statements. She did say prior that she would like to not have a marathon session because she was tired. I told her thank you for respecting me and phrasing it a different way.

I hope not to offend anyone with being so open. I know many befoe me did so and were "trolls" about their agenda. I truly am just at a loss how to tactfully approach all this.

Yes there is still fear in my heart that I may push too hard and ruin what we have accomplished, but on the other hand I am underminding what we have done by not communicating my issues and keeping them bottled up and festering. I beleive there is a great deal of personal issues with her and her guilt that are contributing to this. Where and how do I navigate those issues. As Hairdog said, this nut may be too great for me to crack alone.

Stuck between two knives I guess.

Thanks again honey pot. I agree with that approach. I also agree it is disrespectful to me and my feelings.