We went to MC in March prior to discovery and amidst her EA/PA. It was not helpful, basically MC told W that she would be fine D and on her own but had a H who loved her. Told me that I needed to allow W to explore having her space. I stopped going as did she. For different reasons.
We have broached it but she is adament it is not needed and it is fine. She approaches things from she needs to make all the effort, be "on" for me, make me happy. We all know where that will lead to with resentment and all.
I know posting before weekend is not optimal, but I have posted and deleted many times over the months, knowing I (and the relationship) was not ready, now I am.
Thanks Hairdog!
F4W
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
