Thank you all. Yes, I am angry but a calm angry if there is such a thing. I just don't want to do this anymore. If he wants her he is free to go. I don't really want to do this to my kids but I feel the situation as it is is really hurting them. Right now, they (as well as me) do not know when or if he is going to be here. If he was gone, then we all know that he is gone. I am so tired of the lies. He called 3 hours ago to say he was on his way home...what's up with that? Why call at all? Kids have friends sleeping over but I am going to have to confront him (if he comes home) and just tell him, I'm done. Wish me luck?